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My Romanesque style Toronto Victorian home


It’s been almost six months since we moved into our Toronto Victorian Home and yet waking up and walking from one room to the next still feels so unreal sometimes. The spark we first felt when we initially toured the house is still very much alive and it all just goes to show that our crazy first time home buyer experience was worth the struggles. In the end, we found a beautiful house in a great neighborhood that we have been loving learning more about and exploring.

OUR CREEPY HIDDEN STAIRCASE

Being over 125 years old, our Romanesque style Victorian home does come with its fair share of quirks. For one, we discovered a creepy hidden staircase in a wall while planning out our main floor renovations! We suspect it was closed off to hide plumbing to the second floor bathroom and make room for a new staircase to the basement, but given it features the same high baseboards you see in other parts of the house, the staircase was likely part of the original house.

Additionally, when we bought the house we noticed that the floors sagged. This is a common characteristic of old houses usually equated to their age, but upon further inspection by our structural engineer, we began to suspect that load bearing walls in the basement had been removed by a previous owner at some point. Thankfully the foundation of the building is sound and our renovation plans will address this issue.


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One thing I am 1000% doing is preserving the historical charm of the house as much as possible. Both the entrance way and drawing room feature high baseboards and crown molding centered around exquisite Victorian ceiling medallions. I also love the original ornamental molding that can be found throughout the first floor that embellishes the doorways including the main entrance. Unfortunately, a lot of these decorative molding features have been removed from the second floor, so one thing I’m definitely including on my ‘to do’ list is custom mill work to incorporate it back in.

Speaking of ‘to do list’, the reason why I am sharing today’s post is not only to expand on my pre reno tour, kitchen appliance tips, and share interior design inspiration for my upcoming renovations but it’s also to introduce a new Youtube series I’m going to be filming, documenting our renovation journey! I feel like this house and first floor renovation is going to be an amazing opportunity to share about my love for design and create entertaining content to excite you. There no doubt will be challenges but it’s in those challenges that great stories are made so I hope you will join me on this journey.

Of course, by way of this blog post I also wanted to give you a sneak peak into all the beautiful inspiration I’ve been collecting, what we are planning, and why we called in a structural engineer to help us. SPOILER: it goes beyond sagging floors!


RENOVATING A VICTORIAN HOME

Given our budget after buying the house and the fact that it is currently split into two units, Adam and I decided the best way to approach our top to bottom renovation is to split each floor into phases. This way, we can continue to live in the house during the renovations while still having a working kitchen on the second floor.

As you have probably guessed by now, phase one of this project is going to include a complete first floor renovation. Structural changes to support this, including widening the staircases on both the main and lower floor, will also be taking place as well as reintroducing an entrance way from the front hallway into the drawing room and removing unoriginal walls to create an open concept layout towards the back of the house where you will find a new kitchen, powder room, and bar. The sun-room at the back of the house will eventually be demolished so as to reclaim more of the backyard and a larger door opening will be created to replace it allowing for maximum natural light.

I will be elaborating further about these design choices throughout this blog post as well as providing inspirational images to help you visualize what we are planning. So without further ado, let’s start with diving into each element our renovation plan starting with structural changes.


STRUCTURAL CHANGES

I knew prior to starting our first time home buying journey that I loved Victorian homes so while on our quest we visited many renovated Toronto Victorian homes. A common repeated feature we noticed was an open concept layout on the first floor which, when paired with high ceilings, not only made the house look bigger but grander! Since original walls only seem to exist at the front of our house, Adam and I had no hesitations when deciding to alter the main floor layout by removing walls to make room for a larger kitchen and overall entertaining space. We learned that making these layout changes would require additional steel beams to provide stability and prevent structural issues that could arise later in the other phases of our renovations.

Additionally, since we wanted to demolish the sunroom and reclaim more backyard space we saw this as an opportunity to install a larger opening for a new doorway leading to the backyard. Doing this would require a steal frame to be installed to support the brick wall at the back of the house.

Pre Reno Kitchen and Sun Room - Photo Cred Raffi Tutundijan @jaggedlens

CRITTALL STYLE DOORS

Originally, Adam and I were thinking of doing a large steel Crittall style doors as the back entrance door, however after pricing it out and seeing what the lead times would be to have one made big enough for the opening (it would have to be custom made) we got cold feet.

Living in a cold climate, steel Crittall doors aren’t known for being the most energy efficient door systems since they aren’t great at preventing heat from escaping or blocking the cold from coming in. The Toronto Building Code does have a minimum thermal break requirement for all external doors which is why aluminum doors or fiberglass doors are more common (they offer superior energy efficiency when compared to steel) as well as cheaper. Alas, we are still undecided which way we will go but here’s some inspiration of what we are thinking.


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Further, it wasn’t until we moved in and tried to get furniture to the second floor and basement that we realized how narrow our staircases are! When it comes to staircases, Toronto’s current building code requires staircases in new builds to be a minimum of 36 inch wide. Historically, staircases were never this wide and although our staircase is not original, the opening was never widened by a previous owner. Our staircase comes in at 27 inches making it extremely hard to fit assembled furniture upstairs. For the longest time Adam and I wracked out heads trying to figure out how the previous owners managed to get the kitchen appliances up to the second floor. It wasn’t until we finally measured the width of the doorway to the small front balcony off our master bedroom that we figured out they must have removed the door temporarily and craned them in through the small balcony! Crazy right!? One of the biggest and possibly most pivotal decisions we had to make when putting together our renovation plans was figuring out whether we were going to address our narrow stair issue, how it would impact the structure of the home, and how much widening and replacing both staircases would be.

WOOD STAIRCASE DESIGNS

After finally deciding to move forward with widening the staircases, Adam and I debated whether to go more modern or keep it classic with the new stairs. We both love the look of floating stairs but given how much traditional character the house has, we ended up going for a more traditional design. But I’m sure we will add a modern twist somehow.

Lastly, structural issues in the basement that caused the floors on the main level to sag needed to be addressed before we can lay down a new subfloor and install new floors. To do this it seems that a few new beams will have to go in on the lower level - especially at the front of the house - to ensure the new floors won’t buckle a few years down the road. Installing these new beams will be also help us address the issues on unsupported over-spanned joists that we believe were caused by the removal of a load bearing wall in the basement by a previous owner.

Speaking of floors, I’ve been obsessed with mosaic and herringbone floors for years! Prior to buying a house, I told Adam that I hope whatever we ended up with needed new floors so I would have an built in excuse. During our viewings we saw a few Toronto Victorian's with mosaic and inlaid floors that only continued to fuel my obsession.


CURRENT FLOORING

Currently, the main floor has three different types of flooring going on, one of which does look original. However, it’s only a small section at the back and they aren’t in the greatest shape. If there was more of it and it was in better shape I may reconsider redoing the floors, but in our case this is one ‘out with the old in with the new’ sacrifice I’m willing to make. Traditionally herringbone floors were made of oak and these days you can get them in engineered oak in many different sizes and colours. Narrowing it down to a size was exceptionally hard given the size of the space. Too large and you don’t notice them, but too small and it’s all you notice. It needs to be balanced! In the end we went with a 90 mm natural oak herringbone colour which I am so excited about. It’s going to add warmth back into the space and match beautifully with what we have planned for the kitchen. I can’t wait!

HERRINGBONE FLOOR INSPO

I’ve shared a little bit about the kitchen appliances we ordered a few months back but when it comes to designing my dream kitchen you can bet it won’t be all white! In order to ensure flawless execution for this part of the project, I brought in the big guns, Domani Design Group. Not only does Domani distribute luxury European brands like Pedini but they also specialize in custom cabinetry for both kitchens and bathrooms as well as custom millwork! Just what I needed!

To us, the kitchen is truly the heart of the house and both Adam and I love to cook and entertain. With 10 foot ceilings and an open concept layout, I wanted the kitchen to feel airy but still anchoring, warm and full of natural light. Currently we have two big beautiful windows in our hallway that we plan to position the island between. For cabinetry we are keeping it simple, timeless, and classic but modern with a shaker style kitchen in a dark French navy to match our La Cornue range in the same colour with brass accents. The La Cornue range is going to be the centrepiece so I wanted cabinetry to compliment it, but not compete.

SHAKER STYLE KITCHEN INSPO

A warm porcelain countertop in a Calacatta with brown-gold warms up the space and plays on the natural oak herringbone floors. Floating shelves in a cool natural wood surround a simple and understated range hood which extends all the way to the ceiling to accentuate the height of the room. Bar seating will surround the kitchen island sink. I have even gone so far as to start to think how I will organize the kitchen and have submitted special millwork request to Oscar at Domani including a pull out spice rack and cabinet pull out drawers for my small appliances! I’m so excited!


KITCHEN STORAGE & ORGANIZATION IDEAS


I obviously don’t expect this renovation to go smoothly. I’m actually banking that it’s not so that I have some great stories to come back and share, but I am super excited for all that is to come. I’m also super excited to document and create my Youtube series around it so you guys can get a sense of the process too! If you aren’t following me already make sure to subscribe to my YouTube channel and follow me on Instagram for updates on this phase 1 renovation and more design projects I have in mind!


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'WE BOUGHT A HOUSE': TIPS FOR FIRST TIME HOME BUYERS ON HOW TO BE PSYCHOLOGICALLY PREPARED!

If you follow me on Instagram you may have already seen me talking and sharing about Adam and I’s journey with buying a house for the first time. What you may not know is that we finally won a bid! After months of searching and placing numerous bids, we finally came out on top and will be taking possession of our first home on my birthday! The icing on the cake for me though is that we scored a detached Victorian in one of the most coveted downtown neighborhoods in Toronto, Canada! I still can’t believe it!

Although I am thrilled to end this part of our journey victorious, it has not been easy! As a matter of fact, there were plenty of disheartening and heartbreaking moments which at times made me question whether we should throw in the towel. Looking back, there were definitely a few things I wished I had been more mentally prepared for as a first-time home buyer in Canada. For one, I wish someone told me that buying your first home is hard but buying a home in one of the most competitive real estate markets in Canada is even harder!

The Toronto housing market has been hot for a while but this year with the looming effects of COVID, lack of supply, high renovation costs, and low mortgage rates, the 2021 market saw a 21% increase in the average home price, which brought the average Toronto home from $900K to $1.1 million in 1 year. Additionally, I wish someone had warned me about the frustrations of skyrocketing prices thanks to ‘blind bidding’ wars (when a buyer makes an offer on a home without details of other competing offers), which in our experience lead to houses going 500K over asking! Further, because realtors want to capitalize on bidding wars for their clients, they will list a house lower than the house is worth just to create the frenzied environment they want. Had someone taken me by the shoulders and shaken the naivety out of me I probably could have saved myself from numerous sleepless nights, getting too attached, and bouts of elevated anxiety and stress, but alas here we are! That is why I thought I’d share a few ‘tips for first time home buyers’ with you so that you can go into one of the biggest purchases decision of your life a little more mentally prepared and level-headed than I was and avoid feeling hopeless about buying a house.


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- 5 Tips To Mentally Prepare You For Buying Your First Home -

1. Buying a house is kind of like dating


Chances are you won’t end up marrying the first person you date in high school, right! Well, the same thing goes for houses! In total, Adam and I ended up bidding on 11 houses, 10 of which we didn’t even make a shortlist (when the seller’s agent contacts the top bidders to see if they can improve their offers)! The number of houses we bid on would have been higher but Adam talked me out of placing bids on two houses for one reason or another, and although both those houses did end up selling within our price range (imagine my frustration at the time having to watch them pass me by) in hindsight I realized that he was right and that I would have been settling for a house in a neighborhood that left something to be desired instead of holding out for ‘the one’. DID YOU HEAR THAT ADAM?! I SAID YOU WERE RIGHT! LOL.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that buying a house is like dating - expect to match with a bunch of potentials, fall in love a few times, back out once or twice, get your heart broken when you are outbid, only to have to brush yourself off, get back up and continue looking. Seriously though, it’s okay to step back for a few weeks and take a break from house hunting when you start to feel like you are losing hope like Adam and I did once or twice…. there will always be another slew of new houses out there in a few weeks and sometimes it’s better to take a break than give up, or worse, settle!

2. Buckle up!


On that note, buckle up because you’ve got a long journey ahead!

When Adam and I started our house hunting journey, I anticipated figuring out finances, finding the perfect house, and moving in would take 3-4 months tops and boy was I wrong! Adam and I started looking at the beginning of February and only in mid-end June 2021 successfully won a bid. In that time we saw nearly 50 houses, 90% of which fit my desired style (Victorian).

The thing is, even when you win a bid, most sellers want 60-90 days before they hand over possession of the house, so right there you’re adding 2-3 months to your timeline. In fact, it was only in the midst of our journey that I learned it had taken some of my friends close to a year to find their first house let alone move in! The point is, buckle up and prepare yourself for a long ride ahead especially in competitive markets like Toronto where you will have a lot of competition. I remember one house we bid on had 27 offers which apparently is not uncommon these days when there is a limited supply, especially during the winter months.

According to my mom, who is a licensed real estate agent and helped us with our first time home purchase, the housing market gets more competitive during the winter months (Dec-March) when supply is limited and cools in the summer months (June - August) when supply is at its highest. Additionally, spring (April - May) and fall (Sept - Nov) can also be competitive as there is still a transitioning amount of supply (although better than winter months). However, families with children are generally looking to buy in the spring and move during the summer in order to have their kids settled before school starts in September. For this reason, the market gets a bit more competitive in the spring. Regardless, paying attention to the season and the number of new listings could help your chances of being shortlisted when bidding in a competitive market.

A Timeline for Buying A House For The First Time

3. Roll the dice and play the game


As a first time homebuyer trying to buy a house in Toronto - the city I was born and raised in! - one thing this experience taught me was that the housing market in Toronto is F*$ked! There is no way that people my age will be able to purchase a home in the city in the future if prices keep going up the way they have been unless they and their partner/spouse have a combination of two or more of the following: two very strong income streams, are already sitting on a nice nest egg (like I was with my condo), are getting a bit of money from their parents, are willing to lose a large chunk of their paycheck to mortgage payments or are willing to rent out part of the home to subsidize their mortgage payments.

Further, agents have been listing homes below market value across the city in order to entice bidding wars, so it’s not uncommon to see houses listed in your price range (or even for $1 in some cases!) sell way over the listing price. Towards the end of our journey, both Adam and I realized that the listing price means nothing anymore, that’s why you have to think of putting in an offer as playing a game. Instead of looking at the listing and trying to figure out a realistic number to offer that you feel comfortable with, you have to focus more on ‘comparables’ (houses in the same general area that have the same number of bedrooms, bathrooms, and lot size, etc.) to see what a more realistic value for the house is. Obviously, if it doesn’t have parking, a finished basement, a potential rental unit, or the same number of floors, it could decrease the value of the home, but in a competitive market where the listing prices don’t mean anything anymore, it can become a skill to correctly figure out what a house will go for. That is why you should look at it as playing a game! Bet what you feel comfortable with on the houses you want even if it’s below the asking price because you never know! We saw houses listed only to be terminated and relisted 3-4 times before selling below asking!

You could also play the waiting game and wait till summer when supply is highest and delusional sellers (often propped up by their overpromising agents) calm down or get desperate, and submit a bid based on what you think the house is worth (according to comparables) or what it’s worth to you. Either way, don’t worry too much about offending the listing agent with a lowball offer. The worst thing that can happen is you forfeit the $10 you spent on getting a bank draft (we submitted a photo of one with all our offers to make it more enticing - as trivial as that sounds), don’t win the bid or they come back to you and ask you (or everyone who submitted an offer in one case for us *such a slimy move in my opinion*) to improve, at which point you can still walk away as we did once or twice.


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4. Stick to your guns!


With that in mind, remember to stick to your guns! If you’ve submitted a fair bid or even a pretty good bid on a home only for the selling agent to come back and ask you to improve, you can and should say no if you don’t feel comfortable. Like I said before, in two weeks’ time, there will be a whole new slew of houses on the market and the one you just lost out on will be a thing of the past. Agents are in it to get the most out of the sale for their clients, so don’t get offended or discouraged when they come back to you with a cheeky remark. Instead, stick to your guns because there is nothing they can say that will make you feel worse than overpaying for a house!

The same goes for the type of house you want! I knew I wanted a Victorian and although I did entertain Adam and my mom once or twice to see houses that weren’t Victorians, I rarely like them and wanted to move forward with them. In the 1-2 cases where we did, the price and location were so great it would have been too great of an investment opportunity to pass up (although I will admit, I was certainly relieved when we didn’t win)!

The point is, if you know what kind of house you want, stick to your guns because odds are 1) you’ll waste less time if you have a narrow search vs. a wide search (i.e. a specific neighborhood or a type of architecture style) 2) you’ll be able to pick up some interior design ideas for similar spaces to what you inevitably will end up with, and 3) it’s only a matter of time before you do win a bid, so make sure you stick to your guns and get the house you REALLY want!


SOME OF THE VICTORIAN HOUSES WE WENT TO SEE IN TORONTO

5. Take advantage of holidays, snowstorms, etc.


I swear, one of the reasons Adam and I won our detached home was because it was listed 2-4 days before Fathers Day, and offer night was the Monday after. In total, there were 6 bids which, although it was not the lowest number we had seen, was still pretty good! If you want to have less competition on a house, take advantage of holidays like Mother Day, Fathers Day, Canada Day (or 4th of July for those in the US), Labour Day, etc., especially in the summer when people will be outside enjoying the nice weather or heading up to the cottage. Alternatively, I’ve heard from friends that snowstorms in the winter can cause the same effect! Regardless, the fewer people that view the house the higher the chances you will experience less competition which automatically makes your bid more competitive!


I hope you enjoyed this blog post about tips for first time home buyers and my experience buying my first home. I hope it helps you avoid feeling hopeless about buying a house as well as severe anxiety about buying a house. If you have any comments or questions about buying a house for the first time, or want me to write about other topics that could help you figure out how to prepare to buy a house, please feel free to leave them in the comment section below.


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