5 TIPS FOR STYLING YOUR HOLIDAY FRONT DOOR

Since moving into my new Toronto Victorian home, I have been so eager to start decorating from scratch. Unfortunately, with plans to renovate the main floor starting soon, decorating my front door for fall may be the only chance I get to do something festive before the end of the year! So, upon the immediate arrival of pumpkin season, I decided to take the liberty to start decorating my fall front door right away!

In preparation for this exciting occasion, I took to my favorite social media platform - Pinterest - for some holiday and fall decor inspiration. However, It didn’t take me long to notice that many of the doors and stoops I saw didn’t really resemble mine. Thankfully, my expertise in photography and food styling kicked in and I realized that if I applied the same styling principles from taking photos of food, I should be able to create something eye catching and tailored for my space. Now having gone through the process, I also have come to realize how much easier this made procuring decor items in the proper proportions and quantity as well!

If you are starting to feel festive and have plans to decorate your front porch for the upcoming holiday season, here are some basic styling principles to take into account when creating your perfect fall front porch setup. These simple tips can easily be applied to anything you are working on and when done right, will always result in a super cute and unique holiday setup curated to your taste and style. Happy decorating!


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5 TIPS FOR STYLING YOUR HOLIDAY FRONT DOOR

  1. Layer in the decorations - No matter what I am styling, one principle I always keep top of mind is to layer in items. In the case of my fall front door I started with the two flower pots I bought a few months back and separated them to draw the eye from ‘top right to bottom left’ in the same direction and flow of the staircase. Next I layered in my larger sized pumpkins, staggering the amount on each side to avoid too much symmetry. Following this, I added in my medium sized pumpkins and small hay bales making sure to separate the white pumpkins and use the hay bales in spots that needed elevation like behind a large pumpkin or in front of a flower pot. Next I added in the remaining small and mini pumpkins, making sure to stack a few of the mini ones on top of each other to acheive an additional element of elevation, and staggering the rest to fill in empty pockets. Lastly, I added in my lanterns/lights. In this case I had two kinds - two big lanterns and 3 small tealight lanterns - which I staggered once again in spots that either needed a pop of black or steps that felt a little bare. Layering items like this always helps me to visualize how things are looking every step of the way while also making the result look more natural and less staged.

2. Always buy decor in odd amounts - Aside from the flower pots which I already had, everything else I bought was purchased in odd numbers. 5 large pumpkins, 5 lanterns/t-lights, 5 medium pumpkins in a mix of colours, 5 small orange pumpkins and 13 mini pumpkins in a mix of colours. Doing this automatically helps me avoid to much symmetry and always yields a more natural looking setup. When it comes to photos, the rule of odds states that having an odd number of objects in a photo produces a more appealing composition than an even amount, and clearly this rule works just as well for front doors as it does for food!

3. Add in a little greenery - Greenery is an important element to any festive decor you are styling, and not only adds colour and texture to whatever you’re working on but also adds another vibrant festive element to the overall look. Usually at Christmas when creating a centerpiece I start off with a lot of greenery as a base before adding additional candles and decoration on top. In the case of my front door, the flower pots add a pop of colour and texture while also breaking up the pumpkins. Just make sure you use resilient greenery that thrives in colder weather like purple cabbages, ornamental peppers or chrysanthemums for maximum longevity!


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4. Add some lights for additional night appeal - You didn’t create a beautiful fall front door only for it to disappear out of sight as soon as the sun sets. Adding in some lights to your fall front porch decor will not only give it some life but it can also help visitors notice your new setup while also helping them avoid tripping on a pumpkin. In the case of my front door I used tealights lanterns, but battery operated fairy lights are another great inexpensive alternative that dazzles.

5. Stay away from kitsch… unless that’s the vibe you are going for - The number of times I had to stop myself from picking up Halloween decor while shopping for this project was hilarious. I knew I wanted to decorate my front door with pumpkins but that didn’t mean I wanted to go full on ‘Halloween’. Reminding myself to stay away from anything too kitschy like scarecrows and jack-o-lanterns helped me avoid getting to wrapped up around one festive occasion and instead made achieving a fall front door that works for the entire fall season way easier. If you are like me and want your front door to last all season long, make sure to avoid purchasing any decor that confines you to a timeline.


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10 INTERIOR DESIGN TRENDS I AM LOVING!

My ‘marshmallow couches’ and new swivel chairs in the living room of my new Toronto Vicotiran house!

My ‘marshmallow couches’ and new swivel chairs in the living room of my new Toronto Vicotiran house!

INTERIOR DESIGN TRENDS FOR 2021 AND 2022

With renovations soon to begin on my new Toronto Victorian home, I have been finding myself feeling a new sense of purpose and passion for interior design. What once was a collection of ‘wouldn’t it be nice’s’ and ‘maybe one day’s’ is now inspiration on my ‘First Floor Renovation’ Pinterest board and things just hit different. ‘Pinning’ is ‘planing’ and 2022 interior design trend reports, home decor colour trend boards and industry highlights are definitely what I have been gravitating to. For those who don’t find that stuff as sexy though, here’s a summery of what I learned and what I’m loving.

From the rise of Japandi (Scandinavian functionality meets Japanese minimalism) to the fall of grey kitchens, 2021 and 2022 interior design trends seem to show a shift in how people are moving through life and feeling about their spaces. Now that they are forced to stay home, comforts and cozy atmospheres are a must as well as a need to incorporation more sustainable elements and natural materials into the home. If we can’t go out, we want to bring the outside world in and create beautiful spaces to enjoy while doing so. An emphasis on functionality has taken centre stage as we declutter our spaces and focus on having a few statement pieces rather than an abundance of décor and furniture. When it comes to paint, neutral and grounding colours are also being favoured over vibrant jewel tones and powerful patterns, but nothing has stolen my heart more than these 10 interior design trends for 2021 & 2022:


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Round and Irregular Shaped Mirrors - A useful tool when it comes to interior design, mirrors can help make a room feel larger, reflect light, or even add a splash of glamour to an otherwise stagnant space. Of course, hanging a few mirrors in a home is definitely a must, but one 2021 interior design trend that I am absolutely loving is the use of round and irregular shaped mirrors to unify a room or add a statement. One such mirror that I am currently coveting from Ferm Living is called ‘The Pond’. In some ways it reminds me of Salvador Dali’s melted clock because of it’s similar ‘melted’ characteristics. I especially love to see round and irregular mirrors used as a way to add juxtaposition to a room that otherwise would have a lot of sharp edges like a dining room or a tiled bathroom. Further, irregular or round mirrors perform the double duty of being a design element that is both functional and eye catching while still reflecting light around the room.

Crittall Doors, Windows and Partitions - Not only are they edgy and versatile, but Crittall frames are incredibly eye catching and work well with all types of aesthetics including industrial, mid-century or Scandinavian interiors. Characterized by the grid-like frames and modern lines, the use of Crittall allows both light and space to feel abundant while creating zoned areas within it. Although traditionally used for doors and windows, lately I have seen Crittal also being used to create walls around at-home office space, as doors to pantries, as shower screens and even as partition between rooms. It’s definitely something I’ve been pinning a lot and can guarantee it will be showing up in my new home.

Moody and Dark Kitchen Cabinets - A white kitchens may be timeless but nothing can do ‘sleek and striking’ better than dark kitchen cabinetry. The industry has seen a strong gravitational pull towards dark cabinet kitchens when previous overlooked as purely an 'accent' colour. Black walls, cabinetry and work surfaces are having something of a moment as dark grounding colours feel liveable, luxe and inviting. Mix in some floating shelves made of textured woods and the spaces now feels warm, rustic and inviting. Earthy tones such as terracotta and sand continue to be popular as we aim to create natural, grounding environments to help us truly disconnect from our busy lives. Same holds true for appliances. Back Stainless Steel appliances are now being offered by brands like Bosch, LG, KitchenAid, and Samsung. I myself, feel its gravitation pull and recently purchased a La Cornue stove for my new kitchen in a dramatic dark navy with brass knobs! It’s going to look SO YUM, I can’t wait!


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PHOTO CREDIT: @oldstockantiques

Natural Elements - Bringing nature in doesn’t have to be as literal as filling your place with a million new plant babies. Instead, switching furnishings out in favour of those that incorporate more natural fibres such as rattan, wicker, cane, and wood are a great place to start! Fabrics such as wool, linen and cotton are also being used to add texture to a room along with terracotta vases, dried flowers, marble coffee tables, and wicker baskets. These all add warmth to a room while creating an atmosphere that feels organic, relaxed, and calming. 

Accent Lighting - Lighting doesn’t just need to be functional, it needs to make a statement and much of the inspiration I have been pinning these days for the living room in my Victorian house include a beautiful chandeliers. Emphasis on luxurious lighting offers a great opportunity to draw the eye upwards accentuating high ceilings in a house like mine. If you don’t have high ceilings, no worries, you should still think of lighting as a form of jewelry. Make sure to choose something that provides some sort of opulent grandeur without overwhelming the entire look of the room.

Blush In Bedrooms and Bathrooms - Although not a new colour, earthy pinks are super popular when it comes to 2022 interior color trends and textiles. Perhaps it’s because they mix so well with earthy pigments such as terracotta and sand or natural materials like rattan and woven jute, but I have been very attracted to a rose pink palette when it comes to master bedrooms and powder rooms. There is something so subtle, sophisticated and delicate about it that it evokes feels of relaxed romance for me. I will definitely be incorporating this colour into my home after renovations are complete and am already banking a ton of inspiration for my master bedroom in this colour.

Marshmallow Couches - Definitely not an industry term but instead 100% something I just made up, marshmallow couches and/or curved and shapely furniture have been gracing the IG pages of so many of my favourite home decor accounts for the past few years. Of course striking lighting can make a statement but nothing makes a living room more welcoming than an enticing sofa. Curved couches invite your gaze to dance across a room and nubby textile like bouclé appeal to the touch drawing you further in. I have already began to embrace this 2021 living room decor trend and have procured two couches in this ultra comfy style. I also found two swivel chairs that I plan to reupholstered in bouclé to help me create the dreamiest living room setup!

Rattan, Cane & Wicker - Two things I have been swooning over for what feels like an eternity is rattan, cane and wicker! Although woven furniture styles have been gaining popularity in the last few years, they have always had a place in my heart. Growing up there was a lot of rattan and cane in my home and to me, it feels nostalgic. Natural materials like rattan and wicker add warmth and lightness to home decor while adding texture and natural elements. Both weaves are lightweight and versatile with the ability to work in every room of your home as well as outside! Think rattan garden furniture or cane dining chairs! I will definitely be incorporating a lot of this kind of furniture into my new home as I already have a few DIY’s planned and my eye on a few pieces!

Dramatic Flooring - One things Adam and I are super excited about updating in our new Victorian home are the floors. Currently we have four different kinds of flooring on just our first floor and in order to make the room feel more cohesive, we knew changing the floor was going to be a priority. I have always loved Parisian apartments and Scandinavian interiors which is why we are opting for herringbone flooring. If you’re renting or looking for a lower commitment solution, another way to jazz up your floors is to add a dramatic carpet, animal hide or animal-printed rug to your space.

Swoon-Worthy Ceilings - Accent walls have been around for a while but swoon worthy ceilings are gaining popularity especially if dramatic flooring is not in the budget. Instead of adding wallpaper to one wall, more and more people are opting in for neutrality on their wall and instead using easy stick wallpapers on their ceiling for added flair. I know when Adam and I were house hunting we came across a few Toronto Victorian homes with tin kitchen ceilings and I couldn’t help but fall head over heels in love with them. Thankfully swoon worthy ceilings are in vogue once again and I look forward to incorporating this trend into my home in some aspect.

CREDIT: Peter Salerno, Wyckoff kitchen & bath designers, NJ. Stratta tile design. Rangecraft hood. Peter Rymwid photo

CREDIT: Peter Salerno, Wyckoff kitchen & bath designers, NJ. Stratta tile design. Rangecraft hood. Peter Rymwid photo

So there you have it! Ten 2021 & 2022 interior design trends that I am currently loving. If you are curious to see how my first floor renovations turn out I invite you to follow along. I am planning to post a lot more video’s documenting the process on my Instagram and YouTube channel as well as write a lot more blog posts like this one, so feel free to subscribe! If you think this list is missing big trends or you are obsessed with anything I shared above, feel free to let me know in the comments below!

Until next time!

- Soheila


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HOME SWEET HOME - A PRE RENO HOUSE TOUR!

Welcome To My New Victorian House!

This past August was a whirlwind of a month to say the least! My fiance and I got back from our trip to Powell River only to celebrate my birthday and take possession of our new house all in the same day! It took us a good three days to get all of our stuff into the new place (with a lot of unexpected surprises along the way), but we are finally here!

I honestly could not be more thrilled to share my new house journey with you, but if you are new and are just tuning in now, this new chapter has been almost a year in the making. I vividly remember last September when Adam (my boyfriend at the time) and I deciding to sell my condo and start looking for a house together. I had just spent the entire summer at his family cottage and loved having the extra living space to enjoy. The idea of returning to condo life in a city still under COVID restrictions felt very daunting and I knew one day soon I wanted to find a house in the city instead. Little did I know, selling my condo was going to be even more challenging than I anticipated!

If you’re in a similar life stage as me, you may have already started paying attention to the real estate market. Perhaps you are thinking it’s a great way to invest you money and want a place to call your own - which it is - but since the beginning of the pandemic, the real estate market has been going crazy in big cities like Toronto. Condo’s have seen huge fluctuations in demand and value. Further, home prices have skyrocketed thanks to low interest rates and a lack of supply. Needless to say, what I thought would be a quick transaction turned into a few months of my condo being on the market before I accepted an offer I was happy with.


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The next phase of actually buying a house did not get any easier. Between skyrocketing prices, shady antics from agents, and lack of supply, it took us 4-5 months of searching, over 50 viewings, and 11 offers before we won a bid. If you’re looking to start your own house hunting journey soon, you should read my recent blog post about tips for first time home buyers on how to psychologically prepare. It was a really tough process for me - harder then I ever imagined - but I’m happy to say now it was worth the sweat, mental frustration, and tears because in the end I landed a beautiful home that is beyond anything I imagined I would end up with and I can’t wait to share it with you!

Since starting our house hunting journey a lot has also happened in my personal life including getting engaged to my boyfriend at the end of May. A few weeks later, we visited this beautiful Victorian style house in one of the most coveted neighborhoods in downtown Toronto and I instantly fell in love. The house is over 125 years old, and had so much original character, putting in an offer was a no brainier.

One of the first things that caught my eye was the beautifully arched brick entrance way! You could tell that the front of the house had been landscaped recently with a cobble stone pathway and large stone slab stairs, not to mention it was hard to miss the glorious smoke bush tree out front that provides a bit of privacy to anyone sitting in the front living room. It felt like it could be a scene from a movie - one where a young couple runs up to the front archway trying to duck out of the rain right before one of them gets the courage to lean in and steal their first kiss. Can you see it? Haha!

Perhaps it’s the romantic in me but the love affair with this house didn’t stop at the front door. The house also featured so much original molding and stain glass that I instantly became smitten.

Prior to even starting our house hunt in Toronto I had always loved old homes. Downtown Toronto is full of old homes and Victorian style houses are definitely my favorite, but unfortunately as we learned, a lot of them are not being very well taken care of, and the ones that are have lost a lot of their original charms due to updates/renovation. 90% of what we saw during our house hunting journey were that Victorian house style and I think at one point I started to drive my boyfriend nuts because I wouldn’t budge on what I wanted. But there is no denying the beauty of a Victorian home! Especially ones still full of original character! It’s rare, trust me I’ve looked! Lesson being, I am so glad I stuck to my guns!


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As I walked through the house, my romantic entanglement only grew. The front living room definitely became (and still is) my favorite room in the entire house as it feature so much original Victorian house interior character and a beautiful stain glass motif! In the morning, warm light shines through the window and casts large rainbows of light on the walls inside! There is something very bright and airy about the space that always gives me really good vibes anytime I spend time in here. Since moving in, it has definitely become the room I enjoy working from the most - as a matter of fact, I am writing this very blog post from it now!

Even though we fell in love with the house after only one visit, we do have plans to do some renovations to it. Since the house is actually broken up into two units (check out the video below for the full tour) we originally planned on renting half of it out to Adam’s brother. As fate would have it (and unexpected issues with the house and our ‘new’ appliances) we decided to push up the renovations and start them this fall. Don’t worry, we are keeping as much of the original Victorian charm as we can!

Turning our house back into a single family home is going to be a lot of work but I’m really looking forward to starting renovations in a few months and putting in my dream kitchen. Before we start the renovations though, I wanted to do a quick home tour with you so you can see the canvas I am working with. In this video I will be walking you through my downtown Toronto Victorian house as well as giving you a little sneak peek on what we are planning on changing.


I hope you fell in love with the house as much as I did when I first saw it. If you have any questions or comments about this video, feel free to leave them down below!

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'WE BOUGHT A HOUSE': TIPS FOR FIRST TIME HOME BUYERS ON HOW TO BE PSYCHOLOGICALLY PREPARED!

If you follow me on Instagram you may have already seen me talking and sharing about Adam and I’s journey with buying a house for the first time. What you may not know is that we finally won a bid! After months of searching and placing numerous bids, we finally came out on top and will be taking possession of our first home on my birthday! The icing on the cake for me though is that we scored a detached Victorian in one of the most coveted downtown neighborhoods in Toronto, Canada! I still can’t believe it!

Although I am thrilled to end this part of our journey victorious, it has not been easy! As a matter of fact, there were plenty of disheartening and heartbreaking moments which at times made me question whether we should throw in the towel. Looking back, there were definitely a few things I wished I had been more mentally prepared for as a first-time home buyer in Canada. For one, I wish someone told me that buying your first home is hard but buying a home in one of the most competitive real estate markets in Canada is even harder!

The Toronto housing market has been hot for a while but this year with the looming effects of COVID, lack of supply, high renovation costs, and low mortgage rates, the 2021 market saw a 21% increase in the average home price, which brought the average Toronto home from $900K to $1.1 million in 1 year. Additionally, I wish someone had warned me about the frustrations of skyrocketing prices thanks to ‘blind bidding’ wars (when a buyer makes an offer on a home without details of other competing offers), which in our experience lead to houses going 500K over asking! Further, because realtors want to capitalize on bidding wars for their clients, they will list a house lower than the house is worth just to create the frenzied environment they want. Had someone taken me by the shoulders and shaken the naivety out of me I probably could have saved myself from numerous sleepless nights, getting too attached, and bouts of elevated anxiety and stress, but alas here we are! That is why I thought I’d share a few ‘tips for first time home buyers’ with you so that you can go into one of the biggest purchases decision of your life a little more mentally prepared and level-headed than I was and avoid feeling hopeless about buying a house.


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- 5 Tips To Mentally Prepare You For Buying Your First Home -

1. Buying a house is kind of like dating


Chances are you won’t end up marrying the first person you date in high school, right! Well, the same thing goes for houses! In total, Adam and I ended up bidding on 11 houses, 10 of which we didn’t even make a shortlist (when the seller’s agent contacts the top bidders to see if they can improve their offers)! The number of houses we bid on would have been higher but Adam talked me out of placing bids on two houses for one reason or another, and although both those houses did end up selling within our price range (imagine my frustration at the time having to watch them pass me by) in hindsight I realized that he was right and that I would have been settling for a house in a neighborhood that left something to be desired instead of holding out for ‘the one’. DID YOU HEAR THAT ADAM?! I SAID YOU WERE RIGHT! LOL.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that buying a house is like dating - expect to match with a bunch of potentials, fall in love a few times, back out once or twice, get your heart broken when you are outbid, only to have to brush yourself off, get back up and continue looking. Seriously though, it’s okay to step back for a few weeks and take a break from house hunting when you start to feel like you are losing hope like Adam and I did once or twice…. there will always be another slew of new houses out there in a few weeks and sometimes it’s better to take a break than give up, or worse, settle!

2. Buckle up!


On that note, buckle up because you’ve got a long journey ahead!

When Adam and I started our house hunting journey, I anticipated figuring out finances, finding the perfect house, and moving in would take 3-4 months tops and boy was I wrong! Adam and I started looking at the beginning of February and only in mid-end June 2021 successfully won a bid. In that time we saw nearly 50 houses, 90% of which fit my desired style (Victorian).

The thing is, even when you win a bid, most sellers want 60-90 days before they hand over possession of the house, so right there you’re adding 2-3 months to your timeline. In fact, it was only in the midst of our journey that I learned it had taken some of my friends close to a year to find their first house let alone move in! The point is, buckle up and prepare yourself for a long ride ahead especially in competitive markets like Toronto where you will have a lot of competition. I remember one house we bid on had 27 offers which apparently is not uncommon these days when there is a limited supply, especially during the winter months.

According to my mom, who is a licensed real estate agent and helped us with our first time home purchase, the housing market gets more competitive during the winter months (Dec-March) when supply is limited and cools in the summer months (June - August) when supply is at its highest. Additionally, spring (April - May) and fall (Sept - Nov) can also be competitive as there is still a transitioning amount of supply (although better than winter months). However, families with children are generally looking to buy in the spring and move during the summer in order to have their kids settled before school starts in September. For this reason, the market gets a bit more competitive in the spring. Regardless, paying attention to the season and the number of new listings could help your chances of being shortlisted when bidding in a competitive market.

A Timeline for Buying A House For The First Time

3. Roll the dice and play the game


As a first time homebuyer trying to buy a house in Toronto - the city I was born and raised in! - one thing this experience taught me was that the housing market in Toronto is F*$ked! There is no way that people my age will be able to purchase a home in the city in the future if prices keep going up the way they have been unless they and their partner/spouse have a combination of two or more of the following: two very strong income streams, are already sitting on a nice nest egg (like I was with my condo), are getting a bit of money from their parents, are willing to lose a large chunk of their paycheck to mortgage payments or are willing to rent out part of the home to subsidize their mortgage payments.

Further, agents have been listing homes below market value across the city in order to entice bidding wars, so it’s not uncommon to see houses listed in your price range (or even for $1 in some cases!) sell way over the listing price. Towards the end of our journey, both Adam and I realized that the listing price means nothing anymore, that’s why you have to think of putting in an offer as playing a game. Instead of looking at the listing and trying to figure out a realistic number to offer that you feel comfortable with, you have to focus more on ‘comparables’ (houses in the same general area that have the same number of bedrooms, bathrooms, and lot size, etc.) to see what a more realistic value for the house is. Obviously, if it doesn’t have parking, a finished basement, a potential rental unit, or the same number of floors, it could decrease the value of the home, but in a competitive market where the listing prices don’t mean anything anymore, it can become a skill to correctly figure out what a house will go for. That is why you should look at it as playing a game! Bet what you feel comfortable with on the houses you want even if it’s below the asking price because you never know! We saw houses listed only to be terminated and relisted 3-4 times before selling below asking!

You could also play the waiting game and wait till summer when supply is highest and delusional sellers (often propped up by their overpromising agents) calm down or get desperate, and submit a bid based on what you think the house is worth (according to comparables) or what it’s worth to you. Either way, don’t worry too much about offending the listing agent with a lowball offer. The worst thing that can happen is you forfeit the $10 you spent on getting a bank draft (we submitted a photo of one with all our offers to make it more enticing - as trivial as that sounds), don’t win the bid or they come back to you and ask you (or everyone who submitted an offer in one case for us *such a slimy move in my opinion*) to improve, at which point you can still walk away as we did once or twice.


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4. Stick to your guns!


With that in mind, remember to stick to your guns! If you’ve submitted a fair bid or even a pretty good bid on a home only for the selling agent to come back and ask you to improve, you can and should say no if you don’t feel comfortable. Like I said before, in two weeks’ time, there will be a whole new slew of houses on the market and the one you just lost out on will be a thing of the past. Agents are in it to get the most out of the sale for their clients, so don’t get offended or discouraged when they come back to you with a cheeky remark. Instead, stick to your guns because there is nothing they can say that will make you feel worse than overpaying for a house!

The same goes for the type of house you want! I knew I wanted a Victorian and although I did entertain Adam and my mom once or twice to see houses that weren’t Victorians, I rarely like them and wanted to move forward with them. In the 1-2 cases where we did, the price and location were so great it would have been too great of an investment opportunity to pass up (although I will admit, I was certainly relieved when we didn’t win)!

The point is, if you know what kind of house you want, stick to your guns because odds are 1) you’ll waste less time if you have a narrow search vs. a wide search (i.e. a specific neighborhood or a type of architecture style) 2) you’ll be able to pick up some interior design ideas for similar spaces to what you inevitably will end up with, and 3) it’s only a matter of time before you do win a bid, so make sure you stick to your guns and get the house you REALLY want!


SOME OF THE VICTORIAN HOUSES WE WENT TO SEE IN TORONTO

5. Take advantage of holidays, snowstorms, etc.


I swear, one of the reasons Adam and I won our detached home was because it was listed 2-4 days before Fathers Day, and offer night was the Monday after. In total, there were 6 bids which, although it was not the lowest number we had seen, was still pretty good! If you want to have less competition on a house, take advantage of holidays like Mother Day, Fathers Day, Canada Day (or 4th of July for those in the US), Labour Day, etc., especially in the summer when people will be outside enjoying the nice weather or heading up to the cottage. Alternatively, I’ve heard from friends that snowstorms in the winter can cause the same effect! Regardless, the fewer people that view the house the higher the chances you will experience less competition which automatically makes your bid more competitive!


I hope you enjoyed this blog post about tips for first time home buyers and my experience buying my first home. I hope it helps you avoid feeling hopeless about buying a house as well as severe anxiety about buying a house. If you have any comments or questions about buying a house for the first time, or want me to write about other topics that could help you figure out how to prepare to buy a house, please feel free to leave them in the comment section below.


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GIFT IDEAS FOR MOTHER'S DAY 2021!

Gifts for mom's to be and new moms

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GIFT IDEAS FOR MOTHER’S DAY 2021

I remember last year while researching and writing my ‘Mother’s Day Gift Guide - COVID Edition’ thinking, “What a strange time to live in.” Little did I suspect then that one trip around the sun later, we would still be battling through this pandemic, sacrificing precious time with family and friends.

This year, celebrating the people we love most like our mothers, mothers-in-law, wives, and moms-to-be on Mothers Day is going to mean even more! Not only because we lost out on celebrating their birthday or the pregnancy and birth of a friends or sibling new baby, or numerous Sunday dinners with family and BBQ’s with friends, but because this pandemic has made us treasure meaningful relationships like the ones we share with them so much more. This Mother’s Day, we are not only making up for lost time but we are showing up with a new sense of appreciation and gratitude for all that they do (including forwarding those silly chain emails I used to find annoying but now realize are thoughtful and meant to cheer me up).

- WHEN IS MOTHER’S DAY? -

I know, it’s hard to keep track of because the exact date switches every year but, Mother’s Day always falls on the second Sunday in the month of May, which means ‘Mothers Day 2021’ falls on Sunday, May 9th!

To help inspire you, I have assembled a list of thoughtful gifts you can give that special woman in your life to shows them how special they are.


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One thing I learned from the research I did for last years for Mother’s Day (I sat down with two mothers with two very different age ranges of kids, to see what they want and like), was that YES they wanted to feel appreciated and adored, but REALLY they also wanted ‘TIME OFF!’ The number of times this sentiment was repeated was comical! Yes, they would love to be celebrated by their family but they would also appreciate ‘act of service’ as much as ‘quality time’ and ‘receiving gifts’. So if you really want to make an impact on the woman in your life, try and do all three! Take some chores/responsibilities off their plate, do an activity with them, and leave them with something to remember you by.

- GIFTS FOR YOUR MOM -

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One way to make Mother’s Day memorable is to really make it an occasion. Organize an intimate get-together and treat them to a nice meal or service!

If you live in Toronto, The Four Seasons Hotel Toronto is offering luxury gift baskets with flowers, handmade chocolates, spa treats, and a bottle of champagne, as well as takeaway meals like an Afternoon Tea Tower with house-made sweet treats and a selection of tea. Additionally, if you want to go even BIGGER, you can order a family feast dreamed up by Chef de Cuisine Nicholas Trosien of Café Boulud which includes options like a roast beef prime rib, a garlic and black pepper roast leg of lamb, and a salt-crusted red snapper dinner! YUM!

Since leisurewear will continue to be the universal uniform for the foreseeable future, one thing you can do this Mother’s Day is treat your mom to some luxurious leisurewear.

Free People has been killing the loungewear game this past year and they have so many cute (and affordable!) sets including this Picnic Sweater Set that comes in multiple colours! Not only is their stuff super comfy and loose but I would totally wear these cropped pants out of the house once things start to open up again!


With summer on its way, perhaps a new, straw braided wide brim hat from Love and Lore could make the perfect gift for mom. Made exclusively available at Indigo, this beautiful hat offers optimal sun protection while also being versatile and elegant. She can wear it while on the patio catching up on her morning emails, or while gardening. Not to mention it goes with everything from gardening attire to her favourite sundress!


- GIFTS FOR MOM TO BE & NEW MOMS -

Made by a mom for moms, this Canadian-owned, steroid-free, fragrance-free, organic, plant-based skincare brand called Satya makes products to soothe all kinds of skin irritations and inflammation like eczema, psoriasis, sunburns, bug bites, rashes, chaffing, chapping, etc. Every mom-to-be or new mom should have a bottle of their balm on hand in case their little one experiences diaper rash, itchiness, or dryness. The number of uses you can get out of a single bottle is endless and is great for not just baby but mom too! It is even safe to use on animal paws when they crack from the winter salt!

With salons and spas still closed, it’s hard to give the gift of ‘time off for pampering’ this year but what if you could give that special lady the ultimate experience right at home?

Enter this premium Organic bamboo extendable bathtub caddy that features a spot to hold a glass of wine, a candle, and some soap or your phone, and an adjustable book/tablet propping bar! All you have to do is run a nice bubble bath, set the mood with a couple of nice smelling candles, roll up some towels as they do at the spa, play some relaxing music on the iPad or cue up her favourite show, and there you go! Plus, this organic bamboo caddy is totally waterproof and features non-slip gips so you can expect it to last a really long time and feel very sturdy.

If I had $100 I would bet that every morning the new mom you have in mind, pours herself a cup of coffee or tea and has to reheat it about 2-3 times before she is actually able to finish it.

New moms are so busy not to mention get distracted easily, and rightfully so! Wouldn’t it be great though if you could help make their lives a little bit easier by ensuring their coffee stays hot long enough for them to finish it?

If you have never heard of Yeti Tumbler’s they are a superior thermal tumbler with a vacuum sealed stainless steel design. They are completely BPA-free, dishwasher safe, and have a No Sweat, double-wall insulated design to make sure your hands stay dry and unaffected by the temperature of your drink. It also has a magnets lid flap that keeps your water, beer, or favorite drink on lock should it slip out of her hands, while also making it easy to access! It’s also not just for hot beverages but is great for keeping drinks cold as well!


- GIFT IDEAS FOR MOTHER IN LAW -

Falling asleep will never feel more luxurious than when it is done with a silk pillowcases pressed against your skin. Not only are they amazing at minimizing friction which dries out your hair, making it appear dull and causes serious bedhead frizz over time, but it doesn’t soak up all your expensive anti-aging creams while you sleep or cause creases on your face. Plus, silk is a natural fabric that is known for its cooling effects and breathable nature ensuring you have a more restful night’s sleep.

When it comes to purchasing the perfect silk pillowcase online there are a few things to keep in mind: 1) instead of thread count, silk uses momme - aim for something above 22 to ensure it’s very smooth to the touch, and 2) Mulberry silk is the highest quality of silk you can find (the Egyptian cotton of silk) so look for a pillowcase made of Mulberry silk to ensure high quality!

Two brands I would recommend are SLIP (uses Mulbury Pure Silk 22 momme) and Fishers Finery (uses Mulbury Pure Silk 25 momme)

Does your mother-in-law love to cook? Does she have a green thumb? Perhaps it’s time for you to introduce her to a Click and Grow Indoor Garden that allows her to grow fresh organic herbs all year round!

This Click and Grow Smart Garden 9 piece indoor gardening kit features Click and Grow Smart Soil plant pods with embedded non-GMO seeds that do not have or require any herbicides, pesticides, or fungicides! With the use of the Click and Grow energy efficient LED grow lights this indoor gardening kit can grow her favorite culinary herbs, salad greens, and/or favorite flowers all year round. All you need to do to start growing is put the plant pods into their cavities, plug in the power adaptor, fill the water reservoir, and that's it! She will be on her way to your first harvest in no time!

Simple yet a step up from a classic stud or hoop, these 14k Gold Dipped Toni Knocker Earrings from Jenny Bird are about to become your mother-in-law’s new favorite piece of jewelry!

No occasion is needed, these high polished earrings have a versatile classic design that is great to wear every day no matter what your style.

I have purchased a few Jenny Bird pieces myself and can attest to the quality and longevity of her products! I have never experienced any skin irritations or manufacturing issues, and considering the simple and effortless style of the Toni Knockers, she’ll definitely get a lot of use out of them!


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- DIY MOTHER’S DAY CARD & IDEAS -

Although a repeat offender from last year’s Mother’s Day gift guide, this DIY Mother’s Day gift card idea is so sweet and easy to make, it is worthy of repeating. I ended up making a pressed flower DIY Mother’s Day card for my mother last year with an orchid flower that fell off my plant and a sheet of thick watercolor paper, and she just loved it! It’s also a great way to upcycle a beautiful flower and create something thoughtful and unique. In case you missed it last year, here is the youtube tutorial on how to do it!

If you don’t have flowers in your house or aren’t into the pressed flower idea, here are some easy handmade pop-up card tutorials you can try using paper that is also really nice!

Since you can’t take your mom out to do something fun this year or treat her to a spa day, you may also want to consider creating a few I.O.Us or a coupon book to throw in with your card. I created this template below for my mother after she requested ‘acts of service’ coupons for her birthday and just switched up the image so I could repurpose it for this Mother’s Day blog post! Feel free to print it off and use it!

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I hope you enjoyed this Mother’s Day 2021 Gift Guide and found good gift ideas for your mother, mother in law or mother-to-be! If you have any comments or questions please feel free to leave them in the comment section below.


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