EPISODE 40: TURNING PAIN INTO PURPOSE AND THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS WITH EMILY GOUGH

EPISODE 40: TURNING PAIN INTO PURPOSE AND THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS WITH EMILY GOUGH

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Hello Friends and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

Today on the podcast I have invited fellow podcaster and human connection & transformational coach, Emily Gough to come on and talk to us about the power of forgiveness and how forgiving someone who hurt you is actually for you.

Like a rug ripped out from under her, Emily’s life took an unexpected turn when she found out on Christmas Eve her ex had been having an affair for the last 9 years. Forced to take matters into her own hand, Emily ended the relationship, sold her house and nearly all her belongings, and booked a solo one-way ticket to the opposite side of the globe. Today, Emily inspires others through her podcast and coaching to take ownership of the circumstances life has handed them and create a deeper sense of meaning and purpose from major life transitions.


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Emily Gough is a human connection & transformational coach, speaker, mental health advocate, and host of the top 200 Room to Grow™ Podcast. With years of coaching experience, connection & compassion as superpowers, and a tendency to bring a sense of humor to tough topics, Emily’s warm, genuine, down-to-earth, and direct approach encompasses the full mind/body and will give you the guidance, real-life tools, and perspective you need to help you like and trust yourself more to create the life and relationships you deserve. As seen in Forbes.

Today on the podcast we are going to be talking about creating a deeper sense of meaning and purpose from major life transitions, how forgiveness can sometimes be for you and not for someone else, the benefits of forgiveness, how letting go of pain and anger makes room for something better, the psychology of forgiveness, how to turn pain into purpose, and how to forgive someone who hurt you can help you move forward with your life and help you let go of the past.

To learn more about Emily Gough - CLICK HERE

I hope you enjoy this episode on forgiveness, how to forgive someone who has hurt you, and the benefits of forgiveness as much as I did! Feel free to leave your thought below!

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DID YOU KNOW THE 10 MOST STRESSFUL LIFE EVENTS ARE:

  1. Death of a loved one

  2. Divorce or Separation

  3. Getting Married

  4. Starting a New Job

  5. Workplace Stressors

  6. Financial Problems

  7. Moving

  8. Chronic Illness

  9. Retirement

  10. Transitioning to Adulthood

- FORGIVING SOMEONE DOESN’T MEAN -

  • You are excusing someones actions or pardoning them from committing them!

  • You NEED to tell the person that he or she is forgiven. You can keep that decision to yourself.

  • You won’t be triggered or have any further feelings about the situation.

  • There is nothing further to work out in the relationship and that you should let go of what happened if you want to move forward.

  • You should forget the incident ever happened.

  • You have to continue to include the person in your life.

  • You need to do for the other person. Many of the benefits around forgiveness are actually for you


- Where To Find Emily Gough Online -


INSTAGRAM @EmilyGoughCoach
WEBSITE
https://emilygoughcoaching.com
FACEBOOK
Emily Gough Coaching
Podcast
Room To Grow Podcast



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EPISODE 39: HOW TO TAKE YOUR POWER BACK WITH DIETER RANDOLPH

EPISODE 39: HOW TO TAKE YOUR POWER BACK WITH DIETER RANDOLPH

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Hello Friends and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

Today on the podcast I have invited coach and fellow podcaster Dieter Randolph to come on and teach how we can take our power back!

Once a third-generation minister, Dieter like so many of us, struggled to find a path in life that filled him with purpose. He tried everything from being a minister, to built websites to worked in a record store and even tried selling used cars, but none of it gave him the joy and purpose he craved. After going through and overcoming his own lived experience, Dieter today, helps others build a life they love and fills them with purpose.


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Today on the podcast we are going to be talking about finding your purpose in life, healing, taking power back, self compassion and share stories that empower us.

To learn more about Dieter Randolph - CLICK HERE

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- CHECK OUT DIETER’S BOOK -

Meaning Fullfilled: 7 Practical Answers for Finding What Matters and Changing Your Life

In the face of something meaningful, material things don't resonate with us at all. It's the plot of every romance novel. The protagonist will stand out in the rain in front of their beloved's house. It's the story of the inspired artist or the driven scientist. They will skip sleep and miss meals to do something great. It's a damn fine Percy Sledge song.

This is what our journey is about. We are going to dig past what we're told was important and find what's meaningful. You are the artist, the genius, the conquering hero. You were born for this. We're going to claim that birthright, starting now.

Meaning fullfilled is the process of finding meaning, letting it define and fill you, and using what you've found to change the world.


- Where To Find Dieter Randloph Online -


INSTAGRAM @WayPastOkay
WEBSITE
http://WayPastOkay.com
TWITTER
@WayPastOkay
YOUTUBE
http://askdieter.com



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EPISODE 38: ATTACHMENT STYLES WITH KIM KIMBALL

EPISODE 38: ATTACHMENT STYLES WITH KIM KIMBALL

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Hello Friends and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

Today on the podcast I have invited certified life coach Kim Kimball, to come on the show and teach us all about the different attachment styles people can have in various types of relationship in our lives.

Kim Kimball is best known for helping ambitious women heal their codependent and hyper-independent behaviors so that they can have thriving relationships with partners, family, friends and colleagues. She uses mind + body based approaches to coach women to understand the ‘why’ behind their behavioral patterns.


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Today on the podcast we are going to be talking about attachment styles, relationships, somatic healing and therapy.

To learn more about Kim Kimball - CLICK HERE

I hope you enjoy this episode about attachment styles, relationships, somatic healing and therapy as much as I did! Feel free to leave your thought below!

Also, special thanks to Mattias Friberg for composing the music for this podcast and perfecting my sound!


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- EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT STYLES -

Avoidant Attachment - an attachment style that develops during early childhood, often occurring in children who do not experience kind and sensitive responses to their needs or distress. Children with an avoidant attachment style may become very independent, both physically and emotionally and turn into adults who avoid conflict and have a hard time expressing their feelings.

Anxious Attachment - an attachment stye where a person may have a hard time feeling secure in relationships. As young children, they may cling to caregivers or become inconsolable when a caregiver leaves. As adults they become needy, argumentative, whiny, and even clingy, and often have a hard time trusting people. They may also exhibit low self worth.

Fearful-Avoidant/Disorganized Attachment - an attachment style that develops from a parent's consistent failure to respond appropriately to their child's distress, or by a parent's inconsistent response to their child's feelings of fear or distress. They may have at one moment experienced soothing, the next angry or overwhelmed causing them to become very fearful when in relationships.

Secure Attachment - an attachment style where the person feels secure sharing their feelings in a relationship and can trust their partner has the best intentions. As adults they are able to have trusting, lasting relationships, feel supported by their partner, are not afraid to seek out support and tend to have good self esteem.

- BOOK A FREE 60 MIN COACHING SESSION WITH KIM -

I'd love to gift a complimentary, pitch-free, 60 min coaching session to your listeners who feel called to explore more deeply.’ - KIM KIMBALL


- Where To Find Kim Kimball Online -


INSTAGRAM @kimkimballcoaching
WEBSITE
www.kimkimballcoaching.com
FACEBOOK
Kim Kimball Coaching



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EPISODE 37: A CRASH COURSE IN BUDDHISM AND THE POWER OF MINDFULNESS WITH DR. DIANE GEHART

EPISODE 37: A CRASH COURSE IN THE BASICS OF BUDDHISM AND THE POWER OF MINDFULNESS WITH DR. DIANE GEHART

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Hello Friends and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

Today on the podcast I have invited best selling author and psychotherapist Dr. Diane Gehart to come on the show and give us a crash course in the basics of Buddhism, the power of mindfullness, and playful ways we can increase our daily does of joy.

For those who don’t know Dr. Gehart she is a professor at the California State University, a psychotherapist, an author of over 12 books, and an award winning educator. Her research has been featured in newspapers, on radio shows and on television worldwide, and she maintains an active private practice in the Los Angeles area.


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Today on the podcast we are going to be getting a crash course in the basics of Buddhism, talking about Buddhist practices, Buddhism facts, the power and benefits of mindfulness and Dr. Diane Geharts book ‘Mindfulness For Chocolate Lovers’ that talks about the befits of introducing a daily mindful practice using a piece of chocolate.

To learn more about Dr. Diane Gehart - CLICK HERE

I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I did! Feel free to leave your thought below!

Also, special thanks to Mattias Friberg for composing the music for this podcast and perfecting my sound!


- BENEFITS OF MINDFULLNESS AND MEDIATION -

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- ADDITIONAL RESOURCES -

Enjoy a guided mindful practice with Dr. Diane Gehart using a piece of chocolate.

An accomplished and honored professor, psychotherapist, author, and chocolate connoisseur, Diane Gehart identifies surprisingly efficient and fun ways to increase your daily dose of joy. Drawing on positive psychology, Eastern wisdom, and three decades of psychotherapist know-how, she outlines a no-nonsense yet good-humored path to get you where you want to go. She will teach you step-by-step how to:
- Identify the essential elements necessary for life-long happiness and add them to your everyday habits.
- Develop an unshakable sense of inner joy that sustains you in good times and bad.
- Engage your most painful life circumstances to dramatically improve your life for the better.
- Navigate common pitfalls and challenges, including skillfully handling the most difficult personalities and relationships.
- Transform how you journey through life―making it a joy ride regardless of weather or other unforeseen circumstances.


- Where To Find Dr. Diane Gehart Online -


WEBSITE
https://dianegehart.com/
YOUTUBE
Diane R Gehart, PH.D.


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EPISODE 36: I'M 2.5 YEARS SOBER! NIK SHEASBY'S STORY OF ADDICTION AND RECOVERY

EPISODE 36: I'M 2.5 YEARS SOBER! NIK SHEASBY'S STORY OF ADDICTION AND RECOVERY

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Hello friends and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

Today on the podcast I have invited fellow podcaster Nik Sheesby to come on the podcast and share his story of alcohol addiction recovery.

Nik is 2.5 years sober and has a crazy story of addiction, sobriety, mental health and self empowerment all while working in the music industry for some of the biggest bands in the world.


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For those who don’t know Nik, he is the host of The Beautifully Human podcast which I was graciously invited to be a guest on recently! Listen to our episode by clicking here!

The Beautifully Human podcast is a collection of stories and conversations that Nik has with beautiful humans all around the world with the aim to reveal the power in everyones story though spreading love, vulnerability and all that makes us human.

Today on the podcast we are going to be talking about Nik’s life, what it was like growing up in Ohio, his rebellious teenage years, how he started working in the music industry for some of the biggest bands in the world, his struggles with alcohol addiction, his near death experience, treatment, sobriety, mental health and self empowerment.

To learn more about Nik Sheasby - CLICK HERE

I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I did! Feel free to leave your thought below!

Also, special thanks to Mattias Friberg for composing the music for this podcast and perfecting my sound!


- CHECK OUT NIK’S PODCAST! -


- Where To Find Nik Online -


INSTAGRAM @TheBeautifullyHumanPodcast
WEBSITE
https://www.wanderlustmoonduo.com/
PODCAST
The Beautifully Human Podcast
LINK Tree
inktr.ee/beautifullyhuman



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EPISODE 35: POST BETRAYAL SYNDROME AND OVERCOMING BETRAYAL TRAUMA WITH DR. DEBI SILBER

EPISODE 35: POST BETRAYAL SYNDROME AND RECOVERING FROM BETRAYAL TRAUMA WITH DR. DEBI SILBER

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Hello Friends and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

Today on the podcast I have invited the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute and holistic psychologist, Dr. Debi Silber, to come on the show and talk to us about overcoming betrayal/betrayal trauma recovery and regaining health, confidence, and happiness in our life once again.

Dr. Debi, is an award-winning speaker, coach, and author, and her book ‘The Unshakable Woman: 4 Steps to Rebuilding Your Body, Mind and Life After a Life Crisis’ was a #1 bestseller. She has appeared on FOX, CBS, The Dr. Oz Show, and TEDx -Twice! She has a Ph.D. in Transformational psychology and her recent study on how we experience betrayal led her to make 3 groundbreaking discoveries that could change the way we heal.


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Today on the podcast we are going to be talking about betrayal trauma, symptoms of betrayal trauma, post betrayal syndrome, The 5 Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough’ that Dr. Debi discovered through her research, healing from betrayal trauma, and overcoming betrayal!

To learn more about Dr. Debi Silber - CLICK HERE

I hope you enjoy this episode on betrayal trauma, post betrayal syndrome, and overcoming betrayal as much as I did! Feel free to leave your thought below!

Also, special thanks to Mattias Friberg for composing the music for this podcast and perfecting my sound!


- ADDITIONAL RESOURCES -

Watch Dr. Debi’s Tedx Talk on how to identify whether you have Post Betrayal Syndrome!

Watch Dr. Debi’s Tedx Talk on how to stop sabotaging yourself!

- READ DR. DEBI’S BOOK THE UNSHAKABLE WOMAN -

A life crisis can be a divorce, disease, the death of a loved one or a devastation of some kind that can completely unravel us. It can also be a mid-life crisis where suddenly we start questioning what we’ve been doing, and how we’ve been living as we feel the undeniable urge calling us to live more deeply and fully. It can cause us to question everything we’ve known and everything that’s been familiar as we struggle to make sense of what happened. It can also cause us to face that fork in the road as we consider the next steps and a path different from the one we were on and one that can take us to find our greatest passion and purpose. How can you use this crisis as an opportunity to rebuild your body, mind, and life and create something even better than before? The Unshakable Woman will show you how


- Where To Find Dr. Debi Silber Online -


INSTAGRAM @DebiSilber
WEBSITE
https://thepbtinstitute.com/
FACEBOOK
https://www.facebook.com/InspireEmpowerTransform
YOUTUBE
https://www.youtube.com/debisilber
TWITTER
https://twitter.com/DebiSilber



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EPISODE 34: EMBRACING YOUR SEXUAL IDENTITY WITH SCOTT FLASHHEART

EPISODE 34: EMBRACING YOUR SEXUAL IDENTITY WITH SCOTT FLASHHEART

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Hello Friends and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

Today on the podcast I have invited multi-award-winning writer, editor, and podcast producer Scott Flashheart to come on the podcast and talk to us about sexual identity and how to embrace standing out in a world that has a history of promoting conformity.

Scott, originally from the UK, co-founded and directed The UK's largest and fastest-growing gay lifestyle magazine before creating his multi-award-winning podcast ‘Probably True Podcast’ in 2016. As a groundbreaking queer storytelling, Scott loves to shares stories of queer life and even queerer sex on his podcast as well as inspire, connect and enable LGBTQ+ audio professionals and hobbyists through the Queer Podcasters’ Network which he founded in 2020.


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Today on the podcast we are going to be talking about sexual identity, Scott’s coming out story, funny sexual stories, his first sexual experience, and how to embrace standing out.

To learn more about Scott Flashheart - CLICK HERE

I hope you enjoy this episode about sexual orientation and sexual identity as much as I did! Feel free to leave your thought below!

Also, special thanks to Mattias Friberg for composing the music for this podcast and perfecting my sound!


- TYPES OF SEXUALITY -

If you have been asking yourself ‘what is my sexuality?’, above are a few types (there are many more) of sexual orientations people identify with. Although people do not necessarily need to identify or label themselves as one type of sexual orientation, learning about the different types can help people better understand and relate to others. It can also help anyone questioning their identity deal with any oppression or suppression they have been enduring while also helping them feel less alone. Who knows, it may even help you find a community you feel comfortable sharing experiences with and people you can connect and relate to. Lastly, a person’s sexual orientation can change over time. We are human and change is constant so have grace and compassion with yourself, life experiences will help you learn what you like, what you don’t like, and who you want to be. Sometimes, the only way out of the forest is walking through it.

- LGBTQIA+ SUPPORT GROUPS AND ORGANIZATION -


- Where To Find Scott Online -


INSTAGRAM @ScottLovesCake
WEBSITE
http://www.flashheart.me/
PODCAST
Probably True Podcast


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EPISODE 33: THE COMPLEX EFFECTS OF TRAUMA WITH DR. CHRISTIAN HEIM

EPISODE 33: THE COMPLEX EFFECTS OF TRAUMA WITH DR. CHRISTIAN HEIM

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Hello friends and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

Today on the podcast, I have invited award-winning Psychiatrist and Music Professor Dr. Christian Heim to come on the podcast and talk to us about the complex effects of trauma, trauma symptoms, the causes of trauma, types of trauma, and trauma recovery/how we can overcome it.

With over 20 years of clinical experience, Dr. Heim speaks from a place of deep compassion and authority on Mental Health. Anxiety, depression, addictions, trauma, suicide, personality issues, and relationship breakdown are all common themes in his line of work, and his latest book "The 7 Types of Love: navigating love in a fractured world" was created with the hopes of helping people better understand and connect with each other.


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Today on the podcast we are going to be talking about the complex effects of trauma, what happens when a person experiences trauma, trauma symptoms, the causes of trauma, types of trauma ( ie physical trauma, childhood trauma, psychological trauma), how the body holds on to trauma, triggers, window of tolerance, and trauma recovery / how to heal from trauma.

To learn more about Dr. Christian Heim - CLICK HERE

I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I did! Feel free to leave your thought below!

Also, special thanks to Mattias Friberg for composing the music for this podcast and perfecting my sound!


- TYPES OF TRAUMA -

Emotional Trauma / Psychological Trauma - is the result of extraordinarily stressful events that shatter your sense of security, making you feel helpless in a dangerous world. Psychological trauma can leave you struggling with upsetting emotions, memories, and anxiety that won't go away.

Childhood Trauma - often described as serious adverse childhood experiences, childhood trauma could include neglect, abandonment, sexual abuse, physical abuse, and witnessing abuse of a sibling or parent.

Physical Trauma - a serious injury to the body. Two main types of physical trauma are:

  • Blunt force trauma—when an object or force strikes the body, often causing concussions, deep cuts, or broken bones.

  • Penetrating trauma—when an object pierces the skin or body, usually creating an open wound.

Generational Trauma - trauma that isn't just experienced by one person but extends from one generation to the next (ie psychological distress experienced by children and grandchildren of Holocaust survivors)

Complex Trauma - Complex trauma commonly occurs with repeated trauma against a child. Sometimes a parent or caregiver has experienced their own trauma, which is still affecting them e.g. from mental illness, drugs and alcohol misuse, or being physically or emotionally unavailable. Many situations can cause complex trauma in childhood however not all complex trauma is based in a persons childhood and can be a result of experiences of violence in the community, domestic and family violence, civil unrest, war trauma or genocide, refugee and asylum seeker trauma, sexual exploitation and trafficking, extreme medical trauma and/or re-traumatisation.

Collective Trauma or Mass Trauma - a psychological reaction to a traumatic event shared by any group of people and can affect even an entire society. Covid is an example of a collective trauma.

Betrayal Trauma - trauma perpetrated by someone with whom the victim is close to and reliant upon for support and survival.


- TRAUMA SYMPTOMS -

trauma symptoms

- ADDITIONAL RESOURCES -

The 7 Love Types: Navigating love in a fractured world.

We live in a fractured world: pandemics, economic upheavals, mental illness, screen addiction, loneliness, alienation & separation. We look for love, get confused, get hurt and lose love. More than ever, we need better relationships with family, friends, love partners, and even strangers. Do we even understand love? Or the different love types? Science and Ancient Ideas can help us know love more, show love more, and secure it in our lives.


- Where To Find Dr. Heim Online -


INSTAGRAM @drchristianheim
WEBSITE
www.drchristianheim.com
YOUTUBE
Dr. Christian Heim


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EPISODE 32 : THE VICTIM / DRAMA TRIANGLE WITH DR. ASSAEL ROMANELLI

EPISODE 32: THE VICTIM / DRAMA TRIANGLE WITH DR. ASSAEL ROMANELLI

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Hello Friends and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

Today on the podcast, I have invited clinical social worker, licensed couples and family therapist, YouTuber, writer and podcaster Dr. Assael Romanelli, to come on the podcast and talk to us about codependency, the victim triangle (also known as the Karpman drama triangle) and how to take back control of your life.

Dr. Assael has a PH.D in clinical social work and is a licensed therapist. He has worked with hundreds of individuals, families, and couple all over the world. Together with his wife, he founded and is the director of The Potential State Institute for Enriching Relationships as well as contributes regularly to Psychology Today! With over 15 years of experience, Dr. Assael Romanelli has trained a wide range of individuals and professionals in the art of being more spontaneous, playful and effective in their life and work!


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Today on the podcast we are going to be talking about codependency, the victim triangle (aka the drama triangle), why people fall into these patterns, how we can break out of these cycles and Dr. Assael’s ‘life model’ to help you to achieve a more spontaneous, playful and effective life.

To learn more about Dr. Assael Romenlli - CLICK HERE

I hope you enjoy this episode on the victim triangle (Stephen Karpman drama triangle) as much as I did! Feel free to leave your thought below!

Also, special thanks to Mattias Friberg for composing the music for this podcast and perfecting my sound!


- ADDITIONAL RESOURCES -

THE KARPMAN DRAMA TRIANGLE

The Dramatic Triangle Karpman

- Where To Find Dr Assael Romanelli Online -


PODCAST The Potential State
WEBSITE
www.potentialstate.com
PSYCHOLOGY TODAY BLOG
The Other Side Of Relationships
FACEBOOK
The Potential State
YOUTUBE The Potential State


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EPISODE 31: GROWING UP IN A CHRISTIAN CULT AND HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR IN LIFE WITH MELISSA WEST

EPISODE 31: GROWING UP IN A CHRISTIAN CULT AND HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR IN LIFE WITH MELISSA WEST

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Hello Friends and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

Today on the podcast I have invited confidence and self-worth coach Melissa West to come on and share her story of what it was like to grow up in a Christian cult, and how she found the courage to overcome her fears to leave and follow her dreams.

For over 30 years, Melissa lived in a Christina cult with no voice or power. Living under the rule of her father, Melissa was physically and mentally abused, scared, and trapped. Today, through her coaching services, she help women and those who are tired of living in fear overcome self-doubt, build confidence and find their worth so they can live their life boldly too.


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Today on the podcast we are going to be talking about Melissa’s experience growing up in Christian cult, signs of religious brainwashing, how to overcome fear in life, reconstructing personal beliefs, forgiveness and healing.

To learn more about Melissa - CLICK HERE

I hope you enjoy this episode about how to overcome fear in life as much as I did! Feel free to leave your thought below!

Also, special thanks to Mattias Friberg for composing the music for this podcast and perfecting my sound!


- ADDITIONAL RESOURCES -

Interested in taking Melissa’s ‘Grown Ass Woman’ 90 days course to release fear & guilt, embrace your worth & live boldly? CLICK HERE

For more information on ‘White Fragility’ Melissa recommends checking out BeTheBrdige.Com


- Where To Find Melissa Online -


INSTAGRAM @melissalyonwest
WEBSITE
https://melissalyonwest.com



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EPISODE 30: HOW TO HOLD SPACE FOR HEALING CONVERSATIONS WITH RACHEL BELLOTTI AND JENELL REESNER

EPISODE 30: HOW TO HOLD SPACE FOR HEALING CONVERSATIONS WITH RACHEL BELLOTTI AND JENELL REESNER

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Hello Friends and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

Today on the podcast I have invited besties and co-creators of the True North Collective Podcast, Rachel Belloti and Jenell Ressner, to come on the show and talk to us about the effects of childhood sickness long after recovery.


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Rachel Bellotti, childhood cancer survivor, life +  soul coach, and co-host of the True North Collective Podcast

Rachel Bellotti, childhood cancer survivor, life + soul coach, and co-host of the True North Collective Podcast

Today on the podcast we are going to be talking about childhood sickness, the effects it has on your psyche, trauma held in the body, how to hold space for healing conversations, and surprising overlaps that help friends relate.

Jenell and Rachel are co-creators and co-hosts of the TRUE NORTH COLLECTIVE podcast + experience. Their podcast facilitates community spaces for honest reflection, self-inquiry, light movement, and real conversation that celebrate being a work-in-progress and finding/living one’s TRUE NORTH. To learn more about Jenell Reese and Rackel Bellotti’s podcast ‘The True North Collective' - CLICK HERE

I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I did! Feel free to leave your thought below and save a few images I created that include affirmations for healing and episode quotes about healing.

Also, special thanks to Mattias Friberg for composing the music for this podcast and perfecting my sound!

Jenell Reesner - certified personal trainer, content creator, movement coach and co-host of the True North Collective Podcast

Jenell Reesner - certified personal trainer, content creator, movement coach and co-host of the True North Collective Podcast



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EPISODE 29: AN INTRO TO PSYCHEDELIC ASSISTED PSYCHOTHERAPY WITH MMA'S CO-FOUNDER TANIA DE JONG

EPISODE 29: AN INTRO TO PSYCHEDELIC ASSISTED PSYCHOTHERAPY WITH MMA'S CO-FOUNDER TANIA DE JONG

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Hello Friends and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

Today on the podcast I have invited award-winning social entrepreneur and co-founder of Mind Medicine Australia, Tania de Jong, to come on the show and talk to us about the power of psychedelic therapy to treat a wide range of mental illnesses.


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Mind Medicine Australia (MMA) is a charitable organization that seeks to expand the treatment options available to medical practitioners in Australia and their patients suffering from mental illnesses. They focus on developing safe and effective psychedelic-assisted therapies with the help of trained MDMA and psilocybin therapists and offering a Certificate in Psychedelic Assisted Therapies (CPAT) (the first in the Southern Hemisphere).

Today on the podcast we are going to be talking about psychedelic assisted therapies that utilize MDMA and psilocybin mushrooms therapy for depression, PTSD, anxiety, end-of-life distress, dementia, anorexia, and opioid, alcohol, and smoking addictions, as well as what is next for Mind Medicine Australia.

To learn more about Mind Medicine Australia - CLICK HERE

I hope you enjoy learning about psilocybin mushrooms therapy for depression and this episode on psychedelic therapy as much as I did! Feel free to leave your thought below!

Also, special thanks to Mattias Friberg for composing the music for this podcast and perfecting my sound!


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The New York Times bestseller Johann Hari’s Lost Connections offering a radical new way of thinking about depression and anxiety.

There was a mystery haunting award-winning investigative journalist Johann Hari. He was thirty-nine years old, and almost every year he had been alive, depression and anxiety had increased in Britain and across the Western world. Why?

He had a very personal reason to ask this question. When he was a teenager, he had gone to his doctor and explained that he felt like pain was leaking out of him, and he couldn't control it or understand it. Some of the solutions his doctor offered had given him some relief-but he remained in deep pain.

So, as an adult, he went on a forty-thousand-mile journey across the world to interview the leading experts about what causes depression and anxiety, and what solves them. He learned there is scientific evidence for nine different causes of depression and anxiety and that this knowledge leads to a very different set of solutions: ones that offer real hope.


- Where To Find Mind Medicine Australia Online -


INSTAGRAM @Mindmedicine.au
WEBSITE
https://mindmedicineaustralia.org.au/
FACEBOOK Mind Medicine Australia
YOUTUBE
Mind Medicine Australia



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EPISODE 28 : HOW TO TRANSFORM PTSD INTO POST TRAUMATIC GROWTH WITH JEN CUI

EPISODE 28 : HOW TO TRANSFORM PTSD INTO POST TRAUMATIC GROWTH WITH JEN CUI

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Hello Friends and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

Today on the podcast I have invited holistic health coach and certified personal trainer Jen Cui to come on the show and teach us how we can transform PTSD into Post Traumatic Growth

For over 6 years, Jen suffered from depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, disordered eating, and post-traumatic stress. After traditional medicine and therapies failed to treat her symptoms, Jen made the pivotal choice to embark on a self-healing journey to strengthen her mental health and build a positive relationship with her body. Now, she is thriving in her wellness and helping others do the same.

As the founder of Jen Cui Health, Jen’s mission is to empower people to live a healthy lifestyle that is authentic to them. She has helped hundreds of women and men reclaim their lives and bodies through invigorating live workouts as well as her signature “Find Your Freedom” mindfulness-based 12-week coaching program.

Today on the podcast we are going to be talking about Neuro-Linguistic Programming, psychology​ ​Martin Seligman’s​ 3 P’s to setback recovery, and Psychologist​ ​Carol Dweck​’s 4 Q’s to effectively respond to challenging situations or emotions.

To learn more about Jen’s #My2021 Self-Care Pledge & 6-week Challenge (take the pledge to prioritize your wellness this year and have a chance to win a coaching session with me) - CLICK HERE

To join one of Jen’s Live Weekday Workouts, visit jencui.com/workshops

I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I did! Feel free to leave your thought below!

Also, special thanks to Mattias Friberg for composing the music for this podcast and perfecting my sound!


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The Things you Can See Only When You Slow Down is a bestselling mindfulness guide by Haemin Sunim (which means “spontaneous wisdom”), a renowned Buddhist meditation teacher born in Korea and educated in the United States, illuminates a path to inner peace and balance amid the overwhelming demands of everyday life.


When it was first published, Intuitive Eating was revolutionary in its anti-dieting approach. The authors, both prominent health professionals in the field of nutrition and eating disorders, urge readers to embrace the goal of developing body positivity and reconnecting with one’s internal wisdom about eating―to unlearn everything they were taught about calorie-counting and other aspects of diet culture and to learn about the harm of weight stigma.

In The Four Agreements, bestselling author don Miguel Ruiz reveals the source of self-limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and create needless suffering. Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, The Four Agreements offer a powerful code of conduct that can rapidly transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love.



In this beautiful follow-up to his international bestseller The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down, Zen Buddhist monk Haemin Sunim turns his trademark wisdom to the art of self-care, arguing that only by accepting yourself--and the flaws that make you who you are--can you have compassionate and fulfilling relationships with your partner, your family, and your friends. With more than thirty-five full-color illustrations, Love For Imperfect Things will appeal to both your eyes and your heart, and help you learn to love yourself, your life, and everyone in it.

Trauma is a fact of life. Veterans and their families deal with the painful aftermath of combat; one in five Americans have been molested; one in four grew up with alcoholics; one in three couples have engaged in physical violence. Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, one of the world’s foremost experts on trauma, has spent over three decades working with survivors. In The Body Keeps the Score, he uses recent scientific advances to show how trauma literally reshapes both body and brain, compromising sufferers’ capacities for pleasure, engagement, self-control, and trust. He explores innovative treatments—from neurofeedback and meditation to sports, drama, and yoga—that offer new paths to recovery by activating the brain’s natural neuroplasticity. Based on Dr. van der Kolk’s own research and that of other leading specialists, The Body Keeps the Score exposes the tremendous power of our relationships both to hurt and to heal—and offers new hope for reclaiming lives.


- Where To Find Jen Online -


INSTAGRAM @JenCuiHealth
WEBSITE
www.jencuihealth.com
FACEBOOK JenCuiHealth


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EPISODE 26: 2021 RELATIONSHIP GOALS WITH SPLASH OF ASH

EPISODE 26: 2021 ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP GOALS WITH SPLASH OF ASH

Hello Friends and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

Today on the podcast I have invited Ashley Parker from Splash of Ash to come on and share some 2021 relationship goals with us!

For those who don’t know Ashley, she has spent most of her life dedicated to caring for others and helping them cultivate a life they love. Having received a Bachelor in Psychology and Masters in Mental Health, Ashley worked as a Clinical Mental Health counselor before starting her lifestyle and wellness brand ‘Splash of Ash.

Since Valentine’s day is coming up and cultivating true lasting love’ is a pillar in just about everybody’s life, I thought it would be fun to have Ashley come on and give us all a little pep talk on how we can step up our relationship with these 2021 romantic relationship goals!


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Today on the podcast we are going to be talking about 2021 couple relationship goals, how to cultivate more self-love, and the power of ‘I Feel’ statements. Also, don’t forget to check out all our graphics with quotes about relationship goals!

To learn more about Ashley Parker visit her website: https://splashofash.co

I hope you enjoy this episode about relationship goals as much as I did! Feel free to leave your thought below!

Also, special thanks to Mattias Friberg for composing the music for this podcast and perfecting my sound!


- Where To Find Ashley Parker Online -


INSTAGRAM @a_splashofash
WEBSITE
https://splashofash.co


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EPISODE 24: UNCOVERING MY HUMAN DESIGN WITH CORY RUSIN

EPISODE 24: UNCOVERING MY HUMAN DESIGN CHART WITH CORY RUSIN

Hello Friends and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

Today on the podcast I have invited transformational purpose coach, purpose in life researcher, & Human Design Integrator Cory Rusin, to come on the podcast and educate us on what exactly human design is and how it can help you better understand yourself.

Cory is a Ph.D. level researcher who combines her background in psychology with spiritual tools to empower stuck entrepreneurial women to work through limiting beliefs & patterns so they can unearth their unique gifts. Through her coaching, she helps others own their worth, develop their purpose, and confidently take the next step towards it.

Cory's insight and tips have been featured in popular publications including HelloGiggles and Yahoo! Life, as well as on multiple podcasts. She's passionate about helping female entrepreneurs trust themselves & live every day with a powerful sense of purpose.


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Today on the podcast we are going to be talking about Human Design - what it is, where it originated, and how it can help you reach your highest potential. In this episode Cory will also be reading my human design chart, breaking down the human design system, and explaining what it means to be a human design generator, manifestor, projector, manifesting generator, reflector etc.

To learn more about Cory or to have her read your human design chart, contact her at www.CoryRusin.com

I hope you enjoy this episode about human design and human design systems as much as I did! Feel free to leave your thought below!

Also, special thanks to Mattias Friberg for composing the music for this podcast and perfecting my sound!


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Human Design sheds light on your psychological, emotional, and energetic makeup, giving you self-awareness and tools to align with who your soul chose to be and step into your highest potential.

It combines Hindu Chakras, Conventional Astrology, Chinese I-Ching, and the Kabbalistic Tree of Life.

If you are interested in having Cory read your Human Design Chart or Report and explain what it means, contact her at www.coryrusin.com/humandesign.

Or grab Cory’s Free Purpose Formula Guide: https://bit.ly/3nrQLrW


- Where To Find Cory Online -


INSTAGRAM @coryarusin
WEBSITE
www.CoryRusin.com


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EPISODE 3 : HOW BEING THROWN IN THE DEEP END LED 'HEY NADINE' ON THE BEST SOLO ADVENTURE OF HER LIFE AND HOW SHE EMPOWERS OTHERS TO DO IT TOO!

EPISODE 3 : HOW BEING THROWN IN THE DEEP END LED HEY NADINE ON THE BEST SOLO ADVENTURE OF HER LIFE AND HOW SHE EMPOWERS OTHERS TO DO IT TOO!

Hello and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

In today’s episode we are talking all about finding empowerment in solo travel and to help discuss this topic I have invited a very special guest on - Nadine Sykora - or HEY Nadine as she is more popularly known as, to come and talk about her solo travelings experiences and how being thrown in the deep end led her to the most transformative solo adventure of her life.

Nadine, if you are not familiar with her is one of the top female travel vloggers on Youtube, she has traveled to over 51 counties, is a brand ambassador for Contiki, has presented & spoken on expert panels at Google, VidCon and the Canadian Media PRODUCERS Association - AND She was also a keynote speaker at the 2016 ‘Women in Travel Summit’.

Nadine not only has an immense passion for travel but her videos are full of wit and sarcasm making them both funny and entertaining while being informative and inspirational!

WHERE TO FIND NADINE


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EPISODE 2: HOW AMI VITALE TURNED HER WEAKNESS INTO A SUPERPOWER, FOUND BEAUTY IN DARKNESS, AND INSPIRES OTHER TO TRAVELS WITH PURPOSE

EPISODE 2: HOW AMI VITALE TURNED HER WEAKNESS INTO A SUPER POWER, FOUND BEAUTY IN DARKNESS, AND INSPIRES OTHERS TO TRAVEL WITH PURPOSE

Hello and welcome back to the Is That Soh Podcast!

On today’s episode we are getting inspired to travel again, but this time around with purpose! And to help discuss this topic I have invited a very special guest on - Ami Vitale!

Ami is a national geographic photographer, filmmaker, speaker, and explorer with numerous achievements including being named ‘Magazine Photographer Of The Year’ by the National Press Photographer’s Association; a best selling author for her book Panda Love; the recipient of a Daniel Pearl Award for Outstanding Reporting; being listed on InStyle Magazine’s ‘The Badass Fifty’ which highlight women who show up, speak up and get things done; and is a founding member of Ripple Effect Images, an organization of renowned female scientists, writers, photographers and filmmakers working together to create powerful and persuasive stories that shed light on the hardships women in developing countries face and the programs that can help them.

Follow Ami @AmiVitale on Instagram

SANCTUARIES AMI SUPPORTS:

Reteti Elephant Sanctuary - located on the Namunyak Wildlife Conservancy in northern Kenya, an eight-hour drive from Nairobi, Reteti Elephant Sanctuary was designed to rescue and release orphaned and abandoned elephant calves, while creating much-needed benefits for the local people that live alongside them.

Are you interested in learning more about Ami Vitale’s Photography Workshops? Click HERE.

Do you want to enter her new campaign ‘Win a Trip to Ol Pejeta Sanctuary with Ami Vitale’ too? Click HERE.

Also don’t forget to follow her on Instagram and check out her photography class ‘Documentary Photography: Capturing Places and People’ available on SkillShare HERE. ITS FANTASTIC, especially the ‘perspectives’ lesson.


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EPISODE 1: WE HAVE LIFT OFF!


KINDLY NOTE: In Episode 1, I am taking over 30 years of my life and squeezing it into 30 minutes. Some of the themes I talk about in this podcast may be triggering to some and I just want to be clear that I am not trying to skip over, play down or shy away from talking about them or how they impacted me. It was just impossible to do in 30 Minutes. With that being said, as the podcast progresses I will be sharing more on each topic and am planning to bring on experts who can provide sound advice on these subjects. If you are triggerd and need to talk to someone immediately following this episode please visit Check Point Org to find a helpline in your country.

Further, I am also planning to give my listeners an opportunity to propose questions that they would like me to ask during my interviews as a way to guarantee that you will become part of the conversation and receive the advice/guidance you desire.

EPISODE 1: WE’VE GOT LIFT OFF!

Hello and welcome to the Is That Soh Podcast! I still can’t believe this is happening!



This podcast has been a long time coming and I am so excited to finally be launching it today.

Before I jump into sharing my intentions and motivations for this podcast I just wanted to thank a couple of people for their support. My brother in law, Mattias Friberg who composed the music for this podcast and perfected my sound, and my boyfriend Adam for always being my biggest supporter, my go-to sounding board and loving advisor.

The idea of launching this podcast first came to me back in November/December of 2019 and it has taken me 5-6 months to actually get the courage to launch it.

In all honesty, the reason why it took me so long to launch this podcast was because I was scared shitless. This podcast is much more than just a podcast for me, it is an extension of me and my life journey.

I am definitely not perfect! I have a whole lot of feelings, thought and bad habits I’m personally trying to work through but I also know from everyone who comments on my Instagram photos that I am not the only one. I think many of us could benefit from these conversations as much as I do and I hope through listening to this podcast you are able to find a source of enlightenment and healing as well.

In an effort to start off on the right foot, I really wanted to connect with you and share why this podcast is much more than a podcast for me. I knew in order to do that, I had to let you into intimate parts of my life and past which scared the shit out of me. I knew, once I shared those details and put my story out there, there was no going back….. 



Unlike the interview episodes that I have also recorded in preparation for this launch (and will be premiering in the coming weeks) this episode is very personal and made me feel very vulnerable. It took over three weeks for me to write, another two for me to build up the courage to record and another month and a half to get enough guts to sit down and edit it. Each step of the way was harder than the last and as I inched my way to the finish line I battled with so much self-doubt and feelings of vulnerability it was painful.

Once I sat down and edited it though, I knew it was go-time. Not because I felt prepared and it was finally done and ready (I don’t feel prepared and would have preferred to have a lot more recordings in my ‘bank’), but because this global pandemic is and will continue to be really tough on our mental health. When we can’t create normal social connections, at least maybe through this podcast, we can build a connection through honest conversations, storytelling and the worldly wisdom/insights we discover along the way so that we can all feel less isolated and more enlightened.

Anyways, I hope you enjoy this episode and if you have any feedback/commentary or episode topic/guest interview suggestions, I would love to hear them! Leave your feedback in the comments below.


Photos From My Life

Me - Age 2

My mom, dad and sister Leila

My dad and Prince Albert of Monaco

Me and my sister Shahla at Edwards Garden

Me, Age 3 on a family vacation

My brother Amir (Age 5) and Me (Age 4) in Montalcino, Italy - the most magical summer of my childhood

Dinner with family and friends on my dad’s dream boat. I’m the little girl making the funny face in the pink.

Me and my brother on a farm in Quebec

My beautiful sister Leila who passed away.

L to R: My sister Shahla holding her daughter Paris standing with my Dad and me as an awkward teenager

My high school graduating class photo - I am first row, all the way on the left

My friend and coworker Amanda and I at a party for Greta Constantine

The atelier I moved into that got robbed

Photoshoot for my first collection

Invitation to my First Collection Pop Up Preview

The changerooms my brother Markus built me for my Pop Up

Adam and I in our 2nd year of dating


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